Twin Flames - Clarifying Astrological Reading & Guidance

As a male divine feminine monadic twin flame, I have been on this journey for several years by now. I am well integrated into inner union and occasionally interact with my female counterpart in person. Before I met her, I had a few experiences dating a couple of false twin flames. As much as I am grateful for those experiences, I also wish I had been able to better recognize the looping, the distortion, the lack of mutual internal integration and other signs that could have helped me verify one connection as a karmic soul mate, and another being a higher level soul mate type of divine counterpart, but not a twin flame (identical soul frequency and polarized mind-input). I also wanted to better understand my role in terms of consciousness related to my body, mind and soul. After studying these areas deeply for years, as I progressed on my own twin flame journey, I could combine this knowledge with my professional astrology readings and noticed everything matched up. I want to help you clarify any doubt you might have about your own connection.